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Back Door Betty
by Michael Webb, Founder -
VirtuosoLover.com
Back Door Betty
Ah, anal sex.
Depending on the person, it is the greatest fantasy or the worst
turn-off. Some women run in fear at the thought, while some practically
beg for it. There are men who will do anything to get in the backdoor,
and others who couldn’t imagine putting it in the poop shoot (FYI, not
even all gay men like anal). If you’re one that wants to see what all
the fuss is about, here is a step-by-step guide to making it a
pleasurable, or at least tolerable, experience for both. Warning:
this is a high-risk activity.
- Lube it up…a
lot! Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own
lubrication. Use a water based lubricant. You can get something
flavored if you want to put it on her before you stick your tongue
in there. However, never, EVER attempt anal sex without
lubrication. It will cause tearing in her anus, not to mention a
lot of pain.
- Relax! Have
her take some deep breaths. Perhaps you can give her a massage
first to loosen her up. If she is a little ball of tension, it
causes the sphincter to tighten. If that’s tight, you’ll never get
in.
- Slip a finger
in. Start small, especially if this is her first time. Meaning,
use your pinky. Once you’re all lubed up, glide it in and out
slowly and gently to get her used to insertion. Next try your ring
finger. Really work it out. Insert it, swivel around, tickle. The
more time you can spend the better. If she can’t handle your
finger, she sure as hell won’t be able to handle your penis. That
is, and I hope for your sake, if your penis is larger than your
digits.
- Now you’re
ready. Don’t go jabbing your member straight into the no-no hole.
You will be immediately kicked out of bed, maybe forever.
Particularly amongst anal virgins, this needs to be gradual. Tease
the anus a bit, and then slide in just the head. Pull out, and then
slide it in a little deeper. Keep doing it until you can
comfortable get it all the way in. Don’t add speed or pressure
until she is ready for it. Well, now you can take it from here.
About the author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "The
Virtuoso Lover", teaching men how to become exceptional lovers.
Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world'
love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of
the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by
visiting: The Virtuoso Lover.
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